We are not close but because I’m getting married, we are best friends now!!
September 2nd, 2008 | by jys |Have this ever happened to you? You met this friend don’t know from where and never contacted each other for a long long long time. Suddenly he/she called you, or msn you or sms you and invite you to his/her wedding dinner? I bet you do right?
Recently FL attended a wedding dinner from a friend that he didn’t contact for a long long time. This friend suddenly added him in msn about 2 months ago and asking him to attend to his wedding dinner in hometown (which is fine). Since I only met this guy once and didn’t really have a very good impression on him, I told FL I don’t want to follow. So he told his friend only he himself will attend the dinner.
About a month ago while we were in Hong Kong, FL received sms from this friend again asking him whether he’s bringing partner or not. although FL already told him I’m not attending but still, FL replied him politely (ya, even we’re in HK and the sms are expensive!!) telling him we’re in HK now and will be back on Tuesday, and I’m not attending. This friend of his kept sms back and asked how come I’m not going and this and that. FL thought of replying him when we’re back but this guy just kept sms-ing non stop!! Argggggg… People already told you they’re in HK and told you twice that only one person will attend, why still bugging ppl?
And guess what, the minute we turned on our phone when we reached LCCT on Tuesday, FL received a call from this guy AGAIN!! asking him why he didn’t reply his sms and why don’t I attend his dinner!! If this guy is my friend, I think I will tell him I’m not attending his dinner anymore lar, how can a guy be so ‘cheong hei’ one?? This is not finished yet.. 2 weeks before his wedding, he sms again asking me whether I got changed my mind or not, asked me I want to attend the dinner or not. This is really sooooo annoying! Nobody attend his wedding dinner izzit, how come he kept forcing ppl to attend? He even sms the day before the wedding to ask whether I want to attend or not.. damn geram!!
Have you encountered this before? Luckily, I don’t have this kind of friends.. else.. I don’t know what will I do to him…
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3 Responses to “We are not close but because I’m getting married, we are best friends now!!”
By cincaiblog on Sep 2, 2008 | Reply
this guy realyl cheong hei and really wanted to see you i think.. XD
what about if someone give u a invitation card, but forgot to send back the ang pow if u are not attending… what will you do ah?
Jys:
no lar, FL came back from dinner told me that table only got 5 ppl, that is why he kept asking me to go lar..
give me invitation but forgot to send back ang pow? what do you mean? normally if that’s a friend, he/she will ask you whether you free to attend or not, then only give u invitation card. if that person want to earn money one, they won’t care you wanna attend or not, they just give u the invitation card. But if you agreed to attend but then last minute said dowan to go, then you must give ang pow no matter what..
By cc on Sep 3, 2008 | Reply
I have this high school friend who’s the same. We were not close at all back and lost contact after graduation. Out of the blue, she called and ask me to attend her wedding. I politely declined as I won’t be in anyway. Apparently she called everyone in yearbook. Must be really desperate for guests. LOL
Jys:
If called once to ask still ok, but keep calling and calling and calling even ppl said not attending, that’s annoying ler!!
By cincaiblog on Sep 3, 2008 | Reply
because i forgot to kirim ang pow.to my friend… sigh….. and just passesd.,… is that too late if i give now?
but actually i already said i cant attend when the time she called.. but she send to my family there, my hometown.. thats why i forgot… coz the card not with me… next time invite by email is better…. hehe… FB also not bad… eco-friendly
Jys:
else you can always online transfer to him/her. hehe..now everything online mar, sending invitation card online, angpow also can transfer online lor..
oo, if no invitation card, no need give angpow lar. you already told your friend you not attending mar, so i guess ur friend won’t mind even you nv give ang pow lar.