A question for me but the answer is from you?
May 11th, 2009 | by jys |I received a call from my aunt last weekend. She said she got a question for me and I need to reply her honestly. She sounded serious. I wasn’t really shocked cos she always sounds serious when she got some questions for me. I wasn’t very happy after hearing the question she asked because this is not the first time she asked me this question.
I gave her the same answer every time and seems like she already had her own answer and she chose to believe in hers instead of mine. If she thinks I’m not telling her the truth then why asked again and again? I was quite frustrated when she asked again and I decided to tell her this time, that if she thinks what she thinks is right, then don’t ever asked me the same question again.
If you got a question for me, please, listen to my answer.. and NOT yours!!!!
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4 Responses to “A question for me but the answer is from you?”
By Jayce on May 12, 2009 | Reply
She just want confirmation about her own answer la… Pity her…
Jys:
~sigh.. just feel frustrated..
By Leonard on May 12, 2009 | Reply
What question? Why so frustrated? Let me answer for u la…
Jys:
~sigh
By jane tan py on May 15, 2009 | Reply
dear jys,
hi there! i understand you’re frustrated. but try to see from your aunt view of point.that is, she need your support and in the other hand she is afraid and lonely..maybe next time try not to answer her first but listen to her view (you yourself have to measured if it is logic and reasonable)only then you suppotively tell her just follow her heart la.. i can understand your aunt feelings too..
sometime i do feel lonely and helpless.because i don’t know who trust to (answer to my question)..not because i don’t have friends..just i felt shame if i found the wrong person to share my feeling..
hope u have a nice day!
yours sincerely,
jane tan
Jys:
ya, i know wat you’re trying to say. The thing is…the question she asked me, is something that me, myself has the answer and not others.
it’s like when someone asked you, did you sleep well yesterday? you are the only one that has the answer for a question like this, right? and not something that others can reply on your behalf. She doesn’t want to take my answer cos my answer is not the same as what she thought. That makes me frustrated.
By 24Seven on May 15, 2009 | Reply
eh … its that question eh …
Jys:
no, that’s not the question she asked. i’m just giving an example lar.. hehe..